How to deal with a Foot Fetishist

OK, so you just found out that your partner is toe-tally into your feet. Maybe those nightly foot massages lingered a little too long. Maybe he complimented your new pedicure without noticing your new little black dress. Maybe those new positions he asked you to try all seemed to put your soles right near his face. Or, maybe he just blurted it out. So you're thinking: What now? Don't panic! Foot fetishes are quite common, easy to satisfy, and, best of all, will guarantee that your feet will be pampered like never before! So sit back, put your feet up, and read on for some can't-miss tips on how to keep your man toe-tally satisfied.


Instructions
Step 1Tip 1: Frequent Pedicures. OK, so this probably goes without saying, but it's important to make sure your feet are well taken care of at all times, even in the cold of winter! Sound like a lot of work? Not for you! Involve your partner in your foot care. If he doesn't already know, show him how to wash, pummice, and lotion your feet, and how to paint your toes. This can actually become a romantic time for both of you.

Step 2Tip 2: Ask him what he likes. I can't stress this enough! A foot fetish is highly personal, and guys can have a huge range of things they like. Some want your feet smelling like roses; others will like them sweaty and stinky (yes, it's true!). Some get off on you wearing accessories like shoes, stockings, or foot jewelry, while others just want straight-up bare feet. Some will be very submissive, wanting you to order them to kiss your feet or to have you trample them; others might not be submissive at all.

Step 3Tip 3: Buy some accessories. Honestly, foot guys are like any other guys: they like t&a, but they just happen to find feet sexy as well. So, be sure to keep your revealing clothes and lingerie handy, but consider buying some accessories to show off your feet. This might mean a sultry pair of hose, sexy open-toes shoes, or some anklets and toe rings.

Step 4Tip 4: Surprise him with a foot tease. Before being intimate with your partner (or just for fun sometime), consider giving him an eye full with a hot foot show. Wearing some nice lingerie and those foot accessories you bought, recline on your bed or sofa with your feet propped up on some pillows. The majority of foot guys get most turned on by soles, so, if you can, arrange it so that he'll be looking straight at them.

Wiggle and curl your toes for him - that'll get his temperature up. If you're wearing hose or shoes, slowly remove them one at a time to reveal your bare feet. Beckon him to come to you, and slowly run your feet over his body before bringing them up to his face.

Step 5Tip 5: Have him "worship" your feet. More religiously inclined people might object to the term, but "foot worship" is the standard name to describe the kissing, sucking, and sniffing of feet and toes. He'll enjoy sucking on your toes and kissing your soles - he might bury his face right in your feet! If it tickles you too much, be sure to let him know!

Step 6Tip 6: Give him a footjob. A foot job is pretty much like a hand job or ****, except you use your feet. Just grab some lube (actually, LOTS of lube), put it on your feet and his member, and stroke away. It might seem a bit awkward at first - after all, your feet don't have the dexterity of your hands - but you'll get a feel for it after a while. And he'll love it. There are a number of positions you can try; see my eHow.com article "How to Perform a Foot Job" for all the tips and tricks!

Step 7Tip 7: Give him a hand job while he sucks your toes. You might have to search to find a comfortable position, but once you do, he'll love the feeling of having his member firmly stroked while indulging in a face full of feet.

Step 8Tip 8: Let him have access to your feet during intercourse. This isn't the easiest thing to do, but it might be fun experimenting while you try to find positions that work. In some "man on top" positions, especially if he's standing while you're lying on the bed, you should be able to get your feet near his face quite comfortably. Or, do "woman on top", but face away from him and rest your feet, with your lovely soles facing up, on his chest.

Step 9Tip 9: Get plenty of massages. Since he enjoys spending time with your feet, make sure you take advantage and get plenty of foot massages from him. After all, he owes you!

Step 10Tip 10: Playfully tease him with your feet from time to time. Not all foot teasing has to lead to sex; it can actually be done quite playfully. When you're relaxing together on the couch, consider bringing your toes up to his mouth for a kiss, or, if you're sitting separately, scrunch your soles for him. Or, consider wearing some of your foot accessories next time you go out together.


Tips & Warnings
Most foot guys are sensitive lovers, who will be sure to pay attention to all of you and not just your feet. Make sure that the two of you never get so wrapped up in foot play that the you feel that the rest of your body is being ignored. Foot play should be one element in a healthy sexual relationship where both of you feel totally appreciated, loved, and cared for. Make sure that he thinks about your needs, too, and that he knows how lucky he is to have such an indulgent partne

Female Domination & Supremacy

Female domination relates to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is a female. The female dominant may also be called a Domme, Domina, Dominatrix and Mistress.

It is no secret that we live in a male-dominated society and in a way this is ironic since it is the men who crave to be sexually dominated by beautiful and powerful women.

What is the source of such desire? Is there really a difference between a man who likes his woman to be on top during love making and a man who likes to be spanked and humiliated? In a way, both behaviors are driven by the same needs and desires, although some individuals may be more self aware than others.

The core belief is that a female is truly a superior comparing to a male since only a female is able to giving birth. This is true for all species on Earth (but the sea horse). However, when it comes to physical strengths the male usually has the upper hand, but not without a price: greater vulnerability to be driven by his sexual desires.

Whatever the reason may be; the inner male-child having memories of a strict mother, or a strict female teacher from childhood, an intense career at work where a male has power and responsibility to control other individuals – eventually it is genuinely the male’s need to surrender to a powerful dominant woman.

Female domination is a very real lifestyle for many people, whether it comes in a form of professional female domination services, or in a form of sharing your life with a partner and practice female domination on a day-to-day basis.

Normally this is a gradual process, and as the male gains more power and stability in life, so will he seek harder to fulfill his female domination (Femdom) submission desires, ideally in a lifetime servitude form of domestic discipline. Not all males will succeed in finding the right partner, but those who succeed will experience a liberating and happy life.